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WORLD’S BEST MISTRESS IS BACK!

I sincerely hope this finds you safe and healthy during these fucked up times.

“You can do it like it’s a great weight, or you can do it like it’s part of the dance.” – Ram Dass

As many of you know, at the start of the pandemic I shifted my focus from BDSM and fetishes to online grief and mental health coaching for those in transition. The experience proved to be a very good way by which to stay connected while being open to the drastic and radical shifts that were, and still are, occurring. I had no idea of the necessary and demanding position I would find myself in due to all the change. I’m thankful to have been able to give and receive.

I was lucky to be able to continue to work in some capacity by doing either phone or video sessions for individuals and couples. I found the interactions to be stimulating and fresh, they kept me on my toes, and kept my mind sharp. In fact, knowing the power I have just by using my voice is a huge turn on! You wouldn’t believe some of the things people have done for me. Conducting sessions virtually requires a very advanced ability to communicate and also the ability to “think in pictures.” You can thank my autism for the latter and my passion for the former.

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2020

Also, at the start of the pandemic I relocated to a new space. It was stressful to move during times like these, but things have finally settled down. I even have the dungeon set up for that special first day, whenever that will be. I thank all of you who assisted with the move in some capacity, even if it was just to check in on me.

One of the most challenging aspects of the last five months was the amount of death and loss I have experienced. There have been a total of five deaths so far, and three of them were people with whom I had significant and impactful histories. Needless to say, taking a break from all sessions to grieve was a choice I gladly made for my mental health. These times have reinforced my belief in appreciating the moments, the power of presence, and true connections. I’m thankful we have kept in touch.

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Now, some sense of normalcy has been restored for the time being. I am back in school, and I love it! I am holding sessions of all types, and have been enjoying working with couples in particular. It seems that many people have decided to spice up their sex life as a result of the pandemic, and that liberation brings me great joy. Of course, I wish I could physically go to class and play with others, but for now, this is an excellent option. I can’t imagine what we would do without the technology that did and does carry many of us through.

I have updated each page of my website to reflect the changes that have occurred, and my rates have been adjusted to remain fair and competitive within the industry! XOXOXOXO

DENVER DOMINATRIX POOL PARTY!

I had the most wonderful time with my slut today. We celebrated her birthday, and I dressed her up like my perfect little fuck doll. For her birthday I got her a few things, but the most important thing that I got her was a swimsuit because she had never had a pool party as her new self, Cici.

It fit!

Cici has been emerging over the past years in and out of our sessions. It is been quite an honor to watch the transformation of gender and sexuality with someone I now call a close friend.

I love making people feel special, but more than anything I love to help others express themselves. It touches a special place in my heart to help others liberate themselves and find freedom in whichever way they desire. Of course, liberation does not have to include gender play, but in this case it did.

I made sure everything was perfect by decorating the dungeon, having snacks, drinks, and of course, a cake.

The earlier part of the afternoon was spent in the pool before we transitioned into the cool red light of the dungeon. Cici has learned, overtime, how to be a good girl and how to please this Denver Dominatrix.

Let’s just say that I’m sure all of her birthday wishes – and mine – were answered. Thank you for the amazing day, Cici.

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WHAT IS SUB SPACE

I don’t know why it never dawned on me to write a post on the wonderful topic of subspace. I think I just assumed that everyone knew what subspace was, and I have been reminded again that it is important to think of things from the mind of a beginner.

So, what is subspace? Continue reading WHAT IS SUB SPACE

CUCKHOLD ROLEPLAY

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Note: This is a roleplay scenario. Yogurt was used in lieu of cum, and no, there was not a real man fucking me in the room…. it was all done by imagination!!!! I blindfolded him, and then made slapping sounds on my ass as I screamed about how hard I was being fucked and how big the imaginary man’s cock was.
There was no compromising of anyone’s health. No oral, just pretend 🙂 Oh, but he did suck my condom covered cock 🙂 and a very good job he did, too…

Read on for the nitty gritty DETAILS:
The role play was that we were married and I have a small cock and cum too soon to satisfy my wife. We had sex this morning and it happened again I came and she did not. So she sent me to work wearing her panties under my work clothes. We picked up the role play as I was coming home from work that evening.
I said hello and She asked me to come in the living room and sit down. The living room was set up with candles burning etc. She told me after my lack of performance this moring that I should sit on floor at her feet. She told me our life together was going to change or we would not be together. She said she had a lot of surprise for me this evening. She told me to strip except for the panties she had me wear to work. She was dressed very sexy. she grabbed my cock through my panties and said from now on it would be called my clit, and my ass would be called my pussy. She said I was going to be her sissy bitch from now on. My clit had started to leak pre-cum which she noticed and scooped it up with her finger and made me eat it. Danielle then tied my wrist together and had me crawl over to a bench and lean against the benchand stick out my panty covered ass. She pulled down the panties a little and hand spanked warming up both cheeks. She suddenly with a lubed finger penetrated my ass and massaged my prostate. This started a regular flow of pre-cum which she made sure to feed to me. With her finger in my ass she wispered in my ear that she had a friend in the bedroom that she was going to bring into the living room and fuck to her hearts content. She withdrew her finger and blindfolded me. She brought her friend into the room and started service his huge cock, she mounted him right there on the couch they switched to doggy and he was really pounding her. She came hard followed quickly by him. He came deep in her pussy. He quickly left and my blindfold was lifted. She was ravaged. There was cum running down her thighs and all over her ass. She first made me clean the cum off her ass then the cum running down her thighs. After the clean up she said that she was going to fuck me now, but not the way I think. She left the room and returned with a strap on. She made me suck and deep throat her strap on. She then bent me over the bench and atempted to enter me. I beg her not to because it was too big. After begging many times she said ok try wiffing a little of this stuff and we will try again, but sooner or later I’m going to fuck your cunt you sissy bitch. I did as I was told after a couple wiffs she tried again and she entered me with her strap on. She waited a bit after first entering then started to move in and out. Soon she was fucking me hard and making me beg for it harder. She rubbed my leaking clit through my panties and fed me more pre-cum. Soon I told her I was going to cum she made me cum in my panties. She pulled up my cum soaked panties and made me get dressed and sent me home in cum soaked panties.
What a wonderful session. Her role play skills are great, and her strap on use was very well done no pain just pleasure.

SEX WORK IS REAL

Screen Shot 2014-10-29 at 1.32.50 PMIt’s time for people to wake up and realize the reality of the sex industry. It’s no new news that prostitution has been around for thousands of years and is often referred to as the oldest profession in the world. I’m not here to argue that case. I’m here to shed light on the billion dollar industry that is sex work. The industry isn’t going to magically disappear just because it makes you cringe or you feel uncomfortable thinking about the supposed lewd actions of people engaging in sex for money. Continue reading SEX WORK IS REAL

BITCH BATH

Tonight was a very special night for my slave. A couple of weeks ago I gave him a package and told him to wait to open it until I
could be with him, since inside contained a “hands-on” 
type of gift. Being the impatient slut that he is, I knew it would drive him crazy to have to look at it every day and wonder. That was the point.Screen Shot 2013-12-03 at 11.05.40 PM
Continue reading BITCH BATH

NOSCOSEXUALISM

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So, for years I’ve been calling myself a sapiosexual. A sapiosexual is someone who is attracted to or aroused by intelligence. While I really admire smart people and generally think they’re hot, they can often be arrogant which really turns me off. Also, it’s not like I feel like having sex with someone just because they’re smart. Continue reading NOSCOSEXUALISM