I offer two types of sessions for couples:

Intimacy Coaching or BDSM


I absolutely love working with couples, simply because I believe in the power of connection to heal. I believe that although we are individuals, the relationship is a separate, sacred entity that we can learn to care for more skillfully.

Ideally, we desire safety in our relationships so we can express ourselves. However, our relationships can cause us distress because as intimacy increases so does our risk for loss. This can cause us to close down instead of open up to connection.

If you are experiencing intimacy issues in your relationship it is often a sign that you are on the right track toward the deepest experience of connection possible.

My approach involves incorporating wisdom from various teachings and theories, including Gottman theory; attachment theory; experiential therapy; IMAGO dialogue; mindfulness meditation (Vipassana and Shamata, specifically); emotion-focused therapy (EFT); the Law of Attraction and Manifestation, and the neurobiology of PTSD, connection, addiction, and sex.

Sessions are tailored to meet your needs as a couple and to provide symptomatic relief as soon as possible. During our initial session, and in sessions thereafter, you will be given applicable tools and homework to gain a deeper understanding of how to connect with your partner.

Some of the things I see couples for include – but are not limited to:

  • Manifesting your reality
  • Communication, communication, communication!
    • IMAGO dialogue
    • Active listening/deep listening
    • Empathetic listening
  • Emotional intelligence and accountability
  • Codependency and enabling
  • Connection through conflict and fighting fair
  • Vulnerability and emotional expression
  • The effects of PTSD on sex and connection 
  • Self-regulation tools 
  • Female arousal
  • Male performance anxiety and arousal
  • How gender roles affect intimacy and sex
  • High desire and low desire for intimacy and/or sex
  • Attunement
  • Turning toward instead of away from your partner
  • Shame

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Couples who engage in BDSM have expressed a deepening of trust and connection within their relationship. However, couples often don’t know where to begin. 

Some of the things you will learn about include – but are not limited to:

  • Identifying your desires
  • Roles: Dominant, submissive, switch
  • Kinks and fetishes
  • Negotiation 
  • Aftercare
  • Safety
  • Techniques of play
  • The power of ritual and protocol
  • Power dynamics
  • Boundaries and limitations
  • Consensual non-consent
  • Tools and toys

BDSM sessions take place in my dungeon or at your home. I am happy to come into your environment if that is were you are most comfortable. I am here to be your guide to deepen your sexual intimacy and explore your desires. 

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★ The Intuitive Kinkstress ★