Welcome, first-timer, you’re here for a reason…
Let’s address some things:
“BDSM is painful”
BDSM does not have to be painful. Some people derive pleasure from pain and some do not. I enjoy controlling your pain and pleasure alike. It gives me great pleasure to know that my control extends to a cellular level. I literally will take charge of your nervous system.
“I don’t know what I like”
I am an expert at anticipating the desires of others, and I will help you figure out what you do like. At a very fundamental level, we all have the desire for safety, even when scared…rest assured, I know what I’m talking about.
“I’m a virgin and/or don’t have much experience”
You’re not alone, you’re not the first, and you won’t be the last. Many people experience anxiety when it comes to erotic and sexual exchanges. I don’t judge and will be as curious as you want.
“I’m scared”
Don’t worry, you’ll make it out alive if I have anything to do with it. Also, “fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth.” – Pema Chodron
It is very important that you feel we are a good fit. Take your time and learn about me here, on my site, and when you are ready…
