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People have been emailing me requesting resources surrounding wills and/or advanced directives for end of life care. I have included links to both at the end of this post. Here is a link to the support line I created. I have also lowered the rate in order to increase availability for those who need it: https://kinkencounters.com/corona-virus-support-line/

Some of you may think this is a little grim, but I consider death to be a part of life. I consider death to be one of the ultimate truths, just like sex.

Someone once told me, “You have the ability to bring my shadow to light.”

Death work is shadow work. Sex work can be shadow work as well.

I am honored to be someone who is capable of holding space for the realities of life, sex, and death – someone who is brave enough to open to the truth. I trust that you have that bravery inside of you at well.

“If you think that at the time of your death you will have the strength to do the work of a lifetime, you will be sorrily mistaken. I find that when I keep death close at hand….I say I love you more often. I take myself a little less seriously and learn to not hold opinions so tightly. Maybe we let go a little more easily. Curiously, I find we become a bit kinder to each other.”- Frank Ostaseki, The Five Invitations


WILL: https://eforms.com/wills/?fbclid=IwAR2r8eUHzFmLpTI_a6ZrRVOXC6kkuZfSaJxK07ts62dDIXhO2OuGMJVbUE4

ADVANCED DIRECTIVE: https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/financial-legal/free-printable-advance-directives/?fbclid=IwAR0NnLeZB92E3j25A_oiwUvQIw-fCRqKlp2bRF8dXz90sE6_1gQskoi40Mg

Spread the word. Be a fucking pioneer.


VIA NITEFLIRT, CLICK HERE: https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/11022364-Corona-Virus-Support-Psychology-Chaplaincy

I have created a Corona virus support line designed for emotional support for anyone who needs it during this time. I have an MA in Counseling Psychology, and I am currently working on my second MA in Divinity. I am being trained to offer care to those in crisis who are grieving and/or dying and experiencing loss.

I identify as omnist and interfaith with a strong emphasis in Buddhism and a background in Christianity and Catholicism – and also atheism.

I am here to help you get resourced by means of somatic therapy, talk therapy, or Buddhist meditation in the form of Vipassana or Shamata. I am an expert at holding non-judgemental spaces, and I work with men and women with emotional issues pertaining to their lives and gender roles within the family or societal dynamic.

I have a multitude of various methods from which to pull from. Let’s find what eases your suffering or simply allows space for it to be. I am extremely skilled at identifying a proper modality in a timely and efficient manner.

Thus far, my studies have been dedicated primarily to the neurobiology of behavior in relation to grief, loss, dying, anxiety, the reward system and sexuality, harm-reduction, shame, post-traumatic stress disorder, attachment theory, addiction, gender, and most importantly, communication. 

I have other lines on Niteflirt that showcase my expertise as Dominatrix of over a decade, however, that is not what this line is for. Please be mindful of that when calling. This line will not be used for those services.

Spread the word. Be a fucking pioneer.