Category Archives: FEMALE SUPREMACY

THE SPECTRUM OF BDSM AS THERAPY

First, it is important to understand that every session is approached differently. The level of therapeutic depth one can achieve is on a spectrum, with lighthearted fun and simple pleasure resting at one end, and the vastness of the shadow waiting at the other. There are no expectations of a session to be anything other than what arises. Unless we have discussed a desired destination, things will unfold in organic perfection.

Second, it is even more important to hire a professional who understands how to work with you on the spectrum of the psyche. The energetical states and psychological experiences will happen either way. Wouldn’t you want someone who can alchemically play with these states when they occur? I would suggest looking for someone who is proficient in this sort of somatic integration, who can also respect the benefit of play for play. Together, we will create space for real exploration – where everything is welcomed and nothing is pushed away…

He told me he’d been wanting to see me for years. However, it just wasn’t the right moment. Neither him nor I felt the urge to analyze the timing. Instead, we rested in the [un]certainty of our shared belief system: that everything happens when and how it should; That are no accidents.

Negotiation is the ethical foundation of the exchange of trust when we play. Sessions are about connection, intuition, and meaning-making by means of meeting someone where they are. He mentioned that he had seen a few other professional dominatrices in Denver before, but there was still something missing.

“It was about the method,” he said. “Too much so.”

That stood out to me. I’ve heard similar things from others—how technique can be fine, but if the energy isn’t right, if the giver isn’t fully present and “checking their own shit,” something will feel off and you might not even know why.

Laughter, Screams, and Tears: What Happens When You are Seen
It started with gleeful giggling. He was full of it. Drunk on dopamine and release through laughter. Yet, as we went deeper, something shifted. The laughter gave way to something raw. He screamed – not from pain, but from catharsis. Then, the tears came. They weren’t tears of sadness. They were something else.

There is a feeling that occurs when we are finally able to stand naked in front of someone without receiving criticism or judgement. That feeling comes about as a result of honoring our truth in front of a compassionate witness. It is a feeling unsurpassed by any other and stems from unconditional acceptance. It works as a tether to help us explore freedom in the face of the unknown.

Integrating This Work into His Healing
He saw the session as more than just an experience – it was a piece of something bigger. He talked about how he wanted to keep exploring this part of himself, not just for the physical release, but as a way to reconnect with the parts of himself he had long forgotten.

To Be Continued…

DENVER DOMINATRIX POOL PARTY!

I had the most wonderful time with my slut today. We celebrated her birthday, and I dressed her up like my perfect little fuck doll. For her birthday I got her a few things, but the most important thing that I got her was a swimsuit because she had never had a pool party as her new self, Cici.

It fit!

Cici has been emerging over the past years in and out of our sessions. It is been quite an honor to watch the transformation of gender and sexuality with someone I now call a close friend.

I love making people feel special, but more than anything I love to help others express themselves. It touches a special place in my heart to help others liberate themselves and find freedom in whichever way they desire. Of course, liberation does not have to include gender play, but in this case it did.

I made sure everything was perfect by decorating the dungeon, having snacks, drinks, and of course, a cake.

The earlier part of the afternoon was spent in the pool before we transitioned into the cool red light of the dungeon. Cici has learned, overtime, how to be a good girl and how to please this Denver Dominatrix.

Let’s just say that I’m sure all of her birthday wishes – and mine – were answered. Thank you for the amazing day, Cici.

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ASK A DOMINATRIX

I’m going to be doing a video series where you can ask me any questions you like. Here is a link that will take you to guidelines and instructions. If you would prefer not to leave a comment on youtube, just send me an email. I will select a few questions and answer them in video format.

https://youtu.be/EM8XOc0MT20

 

SEX & DESIRE – PART I

Today I am going to write about sex and desire and how it pertains to relationships, control, and self-esteem. Let me start by clarifying my definition of sex. To me, sex is: Continue reading SEX & DESIRE – PART I

A SAMPLE OF DISTANCE EMAIL DOMINATION

Since I have recently added distance domination to my list of kinks and services that I offer, I wanted to show you all what distance domination via email looks like. This person is paying me $100 for 4-5 emails of any type, to be kept to a limit of two paragraphs each coming from him.

So, in this correspondence, Continue reading A SAMPLE OF DISTANCE EMAIL DOMINATION

THE SHUTTING DOWN OF BACKPAGE.COM

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NEW YEAR POST

I went back and forth about whether or not to create a New Year post. I don’t really celebrate the New Year, simply because it doesn’t make sense Continue reading NEW YEAR POST

WINTER BREAK

Hello kinky people! It’s your favorite Dominatrix informing you of my winter break that will occur from December 21 through January 2. Continue reading WINTER BREAK

CHRISTMAS WISH NO. 2

Christmas wish!!! I have wanted a gold bar necklace for quite some time now. I love how delicately they lay on my neck, and since I’ve turned 30, I’ve started wearing gold instead of silver. It just matches my olive tone more accurately, I feel more like a lady in gold, and it is warm as opposed to the cold colored silver or steel look.

That being said, I’ve had my eye on the god bar necklace right here:

It’s also on sale!!!! Click the picture to be taken to the website.

Contact me for mailing information. xoxoxo

Merry XXXmas!!!!

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WHAT I’VE LEARNED FROM BEING A DOMINATRIX

I have been meaning to write a blog post on this topic for quite some time now. I am about to reach my 10 year anniversary working in the adult entertainment industry, and that has led to a lot of reflection about the time that has passed, the things I’ve gained, the things I’ve lost, and the experiences I’ve had.

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