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WHEN YOUR PARENT CALLS YOU A WHORE

Personal notes from Domme Danielle, Denver’s Intuitive Dominatrix

When my transgender mother tells me that she would have a lot more respect for me and my work as a BDSM/fetish specialist if I labeled it for “what it really is” – which to her is no more then prostitution, and it is completely invaluable because “it is not 40 hour a week job…” I tell her that her dumbing down my 10 years in the industry as a professional dominatrix to being no more than prostitution – which I have nothing against – would be like me telling her that she’s a man in a dress. Continue reading WHEN YOUR PARENT CALLS YOU A WHORE

URETHRAL SOUNDS ELECTRIFYING!

I’m going to render you helpless on my bondage table, perhaps mummified in cellophane with only the important parts protruding – the parts I’m going to need for my delicious torment.

Perhaps I’ll use my PES. It gives me the perfect amount of control with the simple turn of a finger. You’re not scared are you? I promise to be gentle… as I want to be. I long to hear you moan.

Oh, what did you say? You like it when I fuck your cock with my metal rod? Nope, you don’t get that, my little slave. You’re going to have to beg and beg and beg and beg…

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THE MAGIC OF THE DUNGEON

Four words: I love my dungeon.

Trying to express how thankful I am that I have a place where I can be creative, sexual, sensual, erotic, free, and open – is impossible to do with words. Being in my creative place makes me feel so fulfilled – on so many plains.

I love that I created the space to suit my liking, I love that it’s warm – like a womb, I love that I know how to use all the tools to orchestrate beautiful scenes for my playthings. I LOVE seeing others express themselves as well. I CAN’T TELL YOU how much I enjoy the power exchange and trust that flows between myself and my submissives/bottoms. I LOVE to torment, love to sooth, love to cause pain, love to give pleasure.

It really is an amazing place – my place – where I create my art, work my craft, and encourage others to feel the magic that is BDSM.

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AN INTIMATE JOURNEY

Screen Shot 2014-06-11 at 11.37.13 AMPre-session email from a submissive. 
 
“I’ll try very hard to sit on your couch and dispassionately talk about sessions and preferences et. al., but when I think of it that is the part seems like role play.  When I think about connecting with you, two things come to mind.  Talking with you afterwards about who you are now, where you are, glimpses at the back of the painting…

Continue reading AN INTIMATE JOURNEY

JARED, SUBWAY, AND RAPE

This says a lot about our culture. Sex is consensual, rape is not. Get it straight, people. 

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PUNISHMENT

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Mistress,

You are a harsh but fair Mistress and I appreciate that. Today reminded me to never disobey You again. I got up this morning and started to put on my pair of panties as You have instructed me to wear daily and remembered that I was told to wear different attire today. So I went to my bag and found the diapers You had left in there for me from the last time I saw You a few days ago. I put them on and got dressed. I did not want to wear them Mistress and felt so ashamed but knew it was my punishment for standing to pee the other day. I also know it amuses You and of course I get so much pleasure out of making You happy. You are so good to me Mistress that it gives me lots of incentive to please You however I can. I arrived at work and realized that they were not nearly as bulky and awkward as I was expecting so I though it would be a relatively easy day. That was until about 10 AM when I felt the need to pee. Today I was in all day meetings at work so I excused myself from the meeting and went into the bathroom. Luckily the large stall was open. I sat on the toilet with my pants down and the diaper You instructed me to wear and pee in on and peed. I had to pee alot so the diaper filled up. I had to undress from the waste down to take it off and put a new one on so I did that with someone in the next stall. I was so nervous cause now I realized I needed to get to the trash can across the bathroom to throw it away without someone coming in. I waited until the other person in the bathroom left and with my heart racing practically ran across the bathroom and threw away the peed in diaper. I went back into my meeting and texted You what I had done. When You responded and told me that You wanted proof that I was wearing a diaper I did as You instructed. I excused myself from the meeting once again and went back into the stall and took a photo of the diaper with the sticky note You asked me to put on it and sent it to You. Other then You teasing me the rest of the day was fairly uneventful until I had to peed once again in the afternoon. I wanted to just hold it the rest of the day but I was not sure I could and I knew it would not please You so I went into the stall again and peed into the diaper. This time I think my little dick was too far at the top of the diaper because pee started leaking out of the diaper as I was going to the bathroom. I just kept going feeling very nervous that the person in the stall next to me would notice that pee was running onto the floor because I had been sitting too far forward on the toilet seat. Even though You did not ask or require it I sent You a picture of my pee filled diaper for Your amusement. At this point I felt so happy that the day was mostly over and that I could leave work soon.

Mistress I am so sorry I disobeyed You I will never pee standing up again unless You say I can. I am grateful You are such a strict Mistress and I hope to continue to improve as Your loyal little slave.

Your slave,

krissy

LA BARE

This is one of the best documentaries – and one of the only ones for that matter – about male stripping and the culture behind it, at one of the most famous male strip clubs in Texas, called La Bare.

You should watch it, for sure.  Stream now on Netflix

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CA_vzMomMU

 

SEX WORK IS REAL

Screen Shot 2014-10-29 at 1.32.50 PMIt’s time for people to wake up and realize the reality of the sex industry. It’s no new news that prostitution has been around for thousands of years and is often referred to as the oldest profession in the world. I’m not here to argue that case. I’m here to shed light on the billion dollar industry that is sex work. The industry isn’t going to magically disappear just because it makes you cringe or you feel uncomfortable thinking about the supposed lewd actions of people engaging in sex for money. Continue reading SEX WORK IS REAL

RIP DOMINA CARMEN MORIARTY

Screen Shot 2014-10-18 at 1.35.05 PMFellow fetishists and kinky people, it is with regret and sadness that I must announce the death of one of my colleagues and community members, Domina Carmen Moriarty, also known as “MaestroCarmen” on fetlife.com. Continue reading RIP DOMINA CARMEN MORIARTY