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CHRISTMAS WISH NO. 2

Christmas wish!!! I have wanted a gold bar necklace for quite some time now. I love how delicately they lay on my neck, and since I’ve turned 30, I’ve started wearing gold instead of silver. It just matches my olive tone more accurately, I feel more like a lady in gold, and it is warm as opposed to the cold colored silver or steel look.

That being said, I’ve had my eye on the god bar necklace right here:

It’s also on sale!!!! Click the picture to be taken to the website.

Contact me for mailing information. xoxoxo

Merry XXXmas!!!!

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IT’S OK TO PAY

Why it’s ok to pay:

I have a client, we’ll call him Ron, who I’ve known for a few years now. Ron and I have developed a loose friendship outside of our professional relationship -a friendship that consists of Continue reading IT’S OK TO PAY

CHRISTMAS WISH **FULFILLED**

This is a page that is dedicated to my most recent wish. 

You all know I’m in love with perfume, especially Tom Ford’s perfume. I have two fragrances of his so far, but I’m really hoping for this one next. It’s amazing. Woodsy but slightly sweet, like nothing I’ve ever smelled before.

http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/tom-ford-private-blend-santal-blush-eau-de-parfum/3215860

 

The posting will be live until my wish is granted. I know that won’t be too long. Inquire within for shipping information.

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WHAT I’VE LEARNED FROM BEING A DOMINATRIX

I have been meaning to write a blog post on this topic for quite some time now. I am about to reach my 10 year anniversary working in the adult entertainment industry, and that has led to a lot of reflection about the time that has passed, the things I’ve gained, the things I’ve lost, and the experiences I’ve had.

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Continue reading WHAT I’VE LEARNED FROM BEING A DOMINATRIX

EXPRESS YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES

I’ve debated writing a blog post on the topic of the importance of learning how to express your sexual desires for a long time now.

I’ve hesitated – because I think that many of my BDSM clients think that I’m simply supposed to Continue reading EXPRESS YOUR SEXUAL DESIRES

MY START INTO THE ADULT ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY

Screen Shot 2014-02-05 at 9.10.54 AMI have been working in the adult entertainment industry for 8 years now. I started as a dancer when I was 22, worked as an escort for a year after that, and then slowly started making the transition into being the baddass FEMDOM I am today. Continue reading MY START INTO THE ADULT ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY

WHEN CUDDLING IS KINKY

I have found, over the past nine years, that fetishists and kinksters, people in D/s relationships, and submissives (and Dominants) can all have very specific kinks and desires. Sometimes, those desires are a little less typical…like cuddling.

In fact, sometimes when people make initial contact with me, they have a script of sorts – a tale of fantasy – that they have acted out alone numerous times before coming to a Professional Dominant like myself. Yet, sometimes, cuddling is kinky… Continue reading WHEN CUDDLING IS KINKY

INTERNATIONAL DAY TO END VIOLENCE AGAINST SEX WORKERS

Today is International Day to End Violence Against Sex Workers.

I’m sure when you hear this, images of sex workers being raped, accosted by police, and pushed around by pimps enter your mind. I would like to hope that this day represents solidarity for sex workers who have experienced all of the violent encounters mentioned above.

On a deeper level, I would like to address the violence that occurs on a daily basis as a result from societal oppression, stigmatization, and silence around the topic of sex work as a whole.

Violence is also this:

  • The failure to recognize and even omittance of sex workers as a marginalize community within popular culture, educational programs, and government agencies.
  • Failure to recognize sex work as an actual occupation or condemning sex work as a whole simply because it is not socially acceptable or considered “normal.”
  • Speaking in hushed tones around an “out” sex worker when talking about his or her work.
  • Breaking friendships or cutting ties with sex workers because you are uncomfortable with his or her profession.
  • Assuming that sex workers are sex workers because they have a history of trauma or abuse.
  • Drawing conclusions about a sex worker’s sexuality or sex life solely based on his or her profession.
  • Thinking that sex workers don’t deserve to be loved or be in committed or noncommitted relationships simply because they trade sex for objects of value.
  • Adopting a code of silence around a sex worker’s occupation when he or she has made it clear that they are open to communicating.
  • Failing to recognize the emotional capacity of sex workers – people who hold space for some of the most intimate of human expressions.
  • Perpetuating the shame and invisibility of sex work by choosing to stay silent.

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WHEN YOUR PARENT CALLS YOU A WHORE

Personal notes from Domme Danielle, Denver’s Intuitive Dominatrix

When my transgender mother tells me that she would have a lot more respect for me and my work as a BDSM/fetish specialist if I labeled it for “what it really is” – which to her is no more then prostitution, and it is completely invaluable because “it is not 40 hour a week job…” I tell her that her dumbing down my 10 years in the industry as a professional dominatrix to being no more than prostitution – which I have nothing against – would be like me telling her that she’s a man in a dress. Continue reading WHEN YOUR PARENT CALLS YOU A WHORE

AN INTIMATE JOURNEY

Screen Shot 2014-06-11 at 11.37.13 AMPre-session email from a submissive. 
 
“I’ll try very hard to sit on your couch and dispassionately talk about sessions and preferences et. al., but when I think of it that is the part seems like role play.  When I think about connecting with you, two things come to mind.  Talking with you afterwards about who you are now, where you are, glimpses at the back of the painting…

Continue reading AN INTIMATE JOURNEY