I really cannot seem to write enough about the differences between Pro-Dommes and escorts. First, let me start by saying that I have nothing against any form of sex work. I encourage people who want to use the services of escorts to do just that, and I also encourage safety in all types of play. Yes, oral, too. Oral means any act of sex performed on ANY genitalia – pussy, cock, or ass. Continue reading PRO-DOMME VS ESCORT
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FUCK SHAME
Shame is a topic that comes up often in my line of work. In fact, it hasn’t been until very recently that I’ve rejected my own shame in regards to sex and pleasure. I used to take on the shame of my clients – that is, I used to become completely immeshed with them without even knowing it. Now, I have the emotional maturity to separate my emotions from all people I come in contact with, and that enables me to be even more empathetic, offer guidance, and express my needs and desires. Continue reading FUCK SHAME
MY REVIEWS
ORAL SEX
ORAL SEX WITH DOMME DANIELLE
This entry is directed to the few uneducated people who want to give me oral sex. YES THIS INCLUDES ASS WORSHIP AKA ANAL LICKING.
GAYS, GOD, AND SEX WORK
A response to a relative:
Thank you for your apology.
You know, I sat on our conversation for the entire evening, and read your email and sat on that for a while as well. I’m going to be completely honest with you. Our conversation did really upset me. Continue reading GAYS, GOD, AND SEX WORK
PES
Here is the newest addition to the dungeon! A PES!!!
(cock not included) See here for more information: http://www.peselectro.com
CAUTION, DO NOT REMOVE SCARS
There is nothing I hate more than pictures that have been touched-up. All the pics I have posted of myself are photoshop-free, and if anything they have only been lightened or have had minor color adjustments.
I received an email from the the photographer who did my most recent shoot. In it I found a couple of pics, obviously touched up, of me with the angel wings (like you see on my profile).
The thing I noticed first was that he removed the scar I have above my right ribcage. I immediately felt annoyed at the photographer, which I had already developed a distaste for due to his lack of professionalism and cocky attitude.
Yet, my annoyance grew into something larger. It grew into an abhorrence for american culture in general, for “perfection,” for manipulation, misrepresentation, and for the ideals placed on women to be “flawless.”
I love my scars. They are a part of me, my walk, and journey. Everything has a past. Me, I have a past with no regrets.
It’s almost as if we want to erase the fact that perceived “negative” things have happened to us… things that cause us pain…like scars. Heaven forbid we have unpleasant feelings like suffering, sadness, or anger!
Well, to that – and to that stupid photographer – I say, “Leave my SCARS, leave my UNEVEN BREASTS, leave MY WRINKLES, and leave ALL THE EVIDENCE that I have been here, on this earth as a human being!”
INTERVIEW WITH DOMME DANIELLE
For those of you who missed my interview on Temptation Time with Tiffany, here’s the link to listen again! Scroll down to find Domme Danielle. Look for my picture: 
http://www.temptationtime.com/
RIP SLUT
I recently lost a dear friend and client of mine. We had been seeing each other for 2 years. He taught me a lot and we confided in each other within the safe walls of my dungeon and his house…
You will be missed, dirty whore…
FACING YOUR FEARS
I received message from a sub I was supposed to see:
Hi Domme Danielle. I bought the stockings, lipstick, and I shaved last night. I couldn’t sleep and I want to throw up from nervousness. I am not ready to turn this into reality. I apologize… Again, I’m sorry.
So, I would like to address facing your fears as a sub in the BDSM/Fetish lifestyle. First, know that I have firsthand experience with the anxiety of allowing someone else to take control.
That being said, you should always know that even in BDSM scenes, the sub is always the one in control. Actions are always consensual and safe.
My job as the professional is to give you the safe space where we can explore those boundaries in a play-like setting, and it is also my job to create the illusion that I own your ass! Do I push your limits? Yes. Should you be scared? Yes. Do I convince you completely that you have no control? Yes. While in the scene, I allow my entire heart to be poured out. It’s more than acting. It’s being.
There is a relationship between fear and arousal. Is fear the only tool I use? Absolutely not.
It upset me that this person cancelled, BUT the predominant emotion I felt was sadness. What was I sad about? To know that in this fear-based society there was another human being that succumbed to his fears. Do I understand? Completely. Do I know that this person would have had an amazing, cathartic experience? Without a doubt.
Alas, I am a patient woman. I know I will be hearing from him soon. Helping others achieve emotional breakthrough is what I LIVE for.
Oh, and that’s why I require a deposit from you little bitches!
