I really cannot seem to write enough about the differences between Pro-Dommes and escorts. First, let me start by saying that I have nothing against any form of sex work. I encourage people who want to use the services of escorts to do just that, and I also encourage safety in all types of play. Yes, oral, too. Oral means any act of sex performed on ANY genitalia – pussy, cock, or ass.

I am primarily writing this post for my clients are used to seeing escorts. You see, they think they will come to me, have an amazing BDSM experience, and then get to either lick my pussy, worship my ass, or fuck me. While they don’t often come out and say it, it’s usually an underlying expectation. A lot of them think that if they see me over the course of a few months or even years, that eventually I will allow them to go further and further. The only thing I can say about that is that the reality could not be FURTHER from the truth.

So, here’s something for you sluts who are used to seeing escorts who will let you lick their pussies, fuck them, and give you wonderful blow jobs:

Pro Dommes are primarily into sensation play: roleplaying, power exchange, sensory deprivation, pain play, fetishes, MIND fucking, etc.  They generally do NOT engage in any sex during or after the session. If your Mistress allows you to lick her pussy, good for her, but I would hardly call her a Pro Domme, because that, my friend, is prostitution.

Do I enjoy oral sex? Absolutely. Do I enjoy oral sex from men who see sex workers on a continual basis and lick pussies all the time? Fuck no! That’s disgusting, I don’t currently have any STIs, and I’d like to keep it that way. Oh, and by the way, to all my married clients who give oral sex, you may want to have them swab the back of your throat the next time you go get tested. It really would be a shame for you to pass something on to your loved one. You can get a bacterial infection of chlamydia, syphilis, or gonorrhea in your mouth and/or throat and – in some rarer occasions – you can develop genital warts in the mouth. Herpes is commonly passed between genitals and the mouth, and HIV can be passed through cuts in the mouth or small abrasions. 

After reading this, if you’re still not understanding why I won’t allow you to lick my pussy, well then you’re just too stupid to be in my presence in the first place!