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THE ASSERTIVE WOMAN

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The topic of female assertion has been coming up a lot as of late. It would be safe to assume that I do identify as a strong, assertive woman. To some, my dominance – which stereotypically is a masculine trait – is extremely threatening and has provoked the use of labels such as bitchy, scary, or mean. I understand that it may throw a lot of people off when they see such a (mostly) feminine looking woman exhibiting such confidence or assertion, but those people aren’t usually the ones with whom I choose to spend my valuable time. Continue reading THE ASSERTIVE WOMAN

PROFESSIONAL BOUNDARIES IN PRO-DOMINATION

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FISTING, A GUIDE FROM THE CRASH PAD

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First, let me start by explaining the primary reasons why I love THE CRASH PAD SERIES, BY PINK AND WHITE PRODUCTIONS:

“Based on the Award-Winning feminist queer porn The Crash Pad, Queer Filmaker Shine Louise Houston brings to the web authentic female and queer sexuality. Here you’ll find real dyke porn, lesbians, femme on femme, boi, stud, genderqueer and trans-masculine performers, transwomen, transmen, queer men and women engaging in authentic queer sexuality, whether it is with safer sex, strap-on sex, cocksucking, kink and bdsm,, gender play and fluidity, and always authentic orgasms.” –crashpadseries.com Continue reading FISTING, A GUIDE FROM THE CRASH PAD

MY SISTER IS A PRODOMME

MY SISTER IS A PRODOMME:

A STORY

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THE PROFESSION

Long shadows lie themselves against the cobblestone streets of Boulevard de Clichy. The smell of crepes and espresso fill the air after the sun has peeled itself from the earth and the stones have separated themselves from feet that walked them just the night before. Welcome to the Red-light District of Paris. Continue reading MY SISTER IS A PRODOMME

EVERYONE IS AN ARTIST

I thought I would share something personal on my blog today. Usually I don’t add much to kinkencounters.com that isn’t relevant to BDSM, but today I finished a major accomplishment and I just have to share, and if you really think about it, being a Professional Dominatrix IS allScreen Shot 2014-03-11 at 9.01.28 PM about art, intuition, feeling, sharing, being, experiencing – which is A LOT like being an artist. Continue reading EVERYONE IS AN ARTIST

GROCERY GIRL

I thought I’d take a moment to exploit my little grocery girl, Julie. Julie is a long time submissive of mine who appreciates servitude, transformation, sensation play, and BDSM training, of course.

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Julie loves to run errands for her Mistress

About once a week I send her on a mission to Natural Grocers to pick up a few essentials for the house of kink, aka ma maison. Being able to assist in any way really pleases Julie. In fact, when Julie lived closer to me she was my official laundry slave. It was nice having clean and folded panties every week. Continue reading GROCERY GIRL

BITCH BATH

Tonight was a very special night for my slave. A couple of weeks ago I gave him a package and told him to wait to open it until I
could be with him, since inside contained a “hands-on” 
type of gift. Being the impatient slut that he is, I knew it would drive him crazy to have to look at it every day and wonder. That was the point.Screen Shot 2013-12-03 at 11.05.40 PM
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NOSCOSEXUALISM

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So, for years I’ve been calling myself a sapiosexual. A sapiosexual is someone who is attracted to or aroused by intelligence. While I really admire smart people and generally think they’re hot, they can often be arrogant which really turns me off. Also, it’s not like I feel like having sex with someone just because they’re smart. Continue reading NOSCOSEXUALISM

PRO-DOMME VS ESCORT

I really cannot seem to write enough about the differences between Pro-Dommes and escorts. First, let me start by saying that I have nothing against any form of sex work. I encourage people who want to use the services of escorts to do just that, and I also encourage safety in all types of play. Yes, oral, too. Oral means any act of sex performed on ANY genitalia – pussy, cock, or ass. Continue reading PRO-DOMME VS ESCORT

FUCK SHAME

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Shame is a topic that comes up often in my line of work. In fact, it hasn’t been until very recently that I’ve rejected my own shame in regards to sex and pleasure. I used to take on the shame of my clients – that is, I used to become completely immeshed with them without even knowing it. Now, I have the emotional maturity to separate my emotions from all people I come in contact with, and that enables me to be even more empathetic, offer guidance, and express my needs and desires. Continue reading FUCK SHAME