Category Archives: DOMINANCE

GOODBYE COOGAN ORTUS

Many of my loyal subs know why I haven’t been posting much lately. Many of my loyal subs also know that I’m a lover of animals – especially difficult breed dogs like the ones I own – Shiba Inus. A lot of you have brought me dog treats before our session, and one of you even made homemade dog treats for my pups! Needless to say, most people know that my animals are a huge part of my life. Continue reading GOODBYE COOGAN ORTUS

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A SAMPLE OF DISTANCE EMAIL DOMINATION

Since I have recently added distance domination to my list of kinks and services that I offer, I wanted to show you all what distance domination via email looks like. This person is paying me $100 for 4-5 emails of any type, to be kept to a limit of two paragraphs each coming from him.

So, in this correspondence, Continue reading A SAMPLE OF DISTANCE EMAIL DOMINATION

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THE SHUTTING DOWN OF BACKPAGE.COM

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NEW YEAR POST

I went back and forth about whether or not to create a New Year post. I don’t really celebrate the New Year, simply because it doesn’t make sense Continue reading NEW YEAR POST

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THE ART OF ROLE-PLAYING – FREE VIDEO CLIP INCLUDED

I was perusing my old videos (I like to make a lot of movies…with consent of course) – and I stumbled across a clip that made me want to write a post on the art of role-playing. Continue reading THE ART OF ROLE-PLAYING – FREE VIDEO CLIP INCLUDED

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WHAT IS SUB SPACE

I don’t know why it never dawned on me to write a post on the wonderful topic of subspace. I think I just assumed that everyone knew what subspace was, and I have been reminded again that it is important to think of things from the mind of a beginner.

So, what is subspace? Continue reading WHAT IS SUB SPACE

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DENVER DOMINATRIX BIRTHDAY WISH

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My birthday is in June and I am planning Continue reading DENVER DOMINATRIX BIRTHDAY WISH

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NEGOTIATION AND VERBAL COPULATION

Negotiation and Verbal Copulation

Communication Before, During, and After BDSM

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WHEN CUDDLING IS KINKY

I have found, over the past nine years, that fetishists and kinksters, people in D/s relationships, and submissives (and Dominants) can all have very specific kinks and desires. Sometimes, those desires are a little less typical…like cuddling.

In fact, sometimes when people make initial contact with me, they have a script of sorts – a tale of fantasy – that they have acted out alone numerous times before coming to a Professional Dominant like myself. Yet, sometimes, cuddling is kinky… Continue reading WHEN CUDDLING IS KINKY

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THE INVISIBLE SEX WORKER

I wonder if I’ll ever get used to the invisibility of being a sex worker.

So many times I find myself at social functions merely watching as my partner is asked question after question about her professional life. “So, what exactly do you do in your work,” they ask her. She answers. They say, Continue reading THE INVISIBLE SEX WORKER

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